Posted by Ron on August 07, 2003 at 18:06:04:
Alright, I am 30. I consider myself intelligent. I date a 24 year old chinese girl. We have has unprotected sex, yet I am extremely aware of this and us (well in advance) the withdrawl method of contraceptive (she will not go on the pill and will not let me use a condom and spermacide.
She told me she was late last month. At which time we had had sex about the 10th (not frequent). She usually has her period on/or about the 5th. I was very supportive, bought her a test etc, asked her to go to her doctor...I was ready, though shocked. Time went on she did nothing - no test etc,. I am almost certain she is not pregant (she will not tell me anything. It has been too month ( I have not touched her since ), though she will not tell me either way...it is very frustrating, but I am trying to be understanding. We ahve recently went on vaction...she was very frustrated that I would not have unprotected sex with her (very immaculating). But for those three days she did not jave any morning sickness or any signs of pregnacy...it makes me believe that she isn't. (7-8 weeks since intercourse)...
I guess my question is... if she will not tell me, how can I know she is or isn't pregnant? I feel very stupid with this situation.
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