Bleeding the first time....

Posted by tamara on October 05, 2003 at 10:07:10:

I need help. Last Augest I got drunk and almost lost my viriginty to my friend of five years. He started to go in but I felt pain and stoped him befor he could enter me and was relieved I did. Other than thta I couldn't remember much of the night and what happened and so I am unclear if anything else happened becuase I was drunk. After that night I stopped drinking and hanging out with those friends. My friend who is this really great guy...we started dating. I lost my viriginty to him and I am sure of it becasue I bleed. Someone told him that I lost it to the guy on the night I drank. HE believed them and is really upset. Me and this guy went out for 6 months and where still good friends after wards but now he will barely talk to me. Is it true that if you had sex and you bleed you can only bleed the first time and that if you had sex some odd months later that you won't bleed becasue your hym was already torn? I just need to know if this is true or if someone has had sex and didn't bleed and then did bleed the second time. Please help. Also do you think this is a good idea: to have him go to the doctors office with me and tlak to a doctor about it? THanks for any and all help.